EXCLUSIVE: These Celebs & Personalities Love "It's Okay To Not Be Okay"
Fans of "It's Okay to Not be Okay" will have a deeper appreciation for the series after reading this. And those who haven't seen it yet (warning: spoilers ahead!) will be convinced to binge-watch it right away!
The recently-concluded K-Drama It's Okay to Not be Okay (IOTNBO) is undoubtedly one of the best series this 2020. We're also not exaggerating when we say that many years from now, it'll surely still be remembered for how masterfully and beautifully done it was—from the plot, the cast and their acting (Kim Soo-hyun proves why he's the highest-paid Korean actor), the storytelling and the fairy tales, the pacing, the script (so much quotable quotes!), the cinematography, the special effects, the filming locations, OST, and of course, the relevance of female lead character Ko Mun-yeong's fabulous outfits vis a vis the narrative. We enjoyed the 16-episode series so much we're willing to overlook some loopholes, like who Mun-yeong's mom turned out to be.
It's no surprise to later find it alongside K-Dramas that are considered classics—take, for instance, Autumn in My Heart, Winter Sonata, Stairway to Heaven, Boys Over Flowers, and more recent ones like My Love from the Star and The Heirs, among many others. And when we say "classic," we mean it's timeless and can appeal to viewers from different generations.
It's Okay to Not be Okay definitely has those elements; its main story that revolves around mental health issues, trauma, as well as emotional and psychological wounds is perennially seen and felt in the society. In fact, now more than ever in the face of a pandemic and an unprecedented time in history that brings about so much uncertainty and therefore anxiety, people are not just more mindful of their physical health but their mental well-being too.
That's why the release of It's Okay to Not be Okay couldn't have come at a better time when its core messages must reverberate within the confines of people's homes while under quarantine. We've learned about the "Butterfly Hug" method, a relaxation, self-soothing technique. We've been taught to face our trauma head-on instead of running away from it, in order to overcome it. We're reminded to take a break when we're tired, and to cry our hearts out when we're sad. We're told that self-care is not synonymous to selfishness. We're made to understand that there's nothing embarrassing about being sad. We're informed about mental health issues.
And, ultimately, we're made to realize that "it's okay to not be okay." We're only humans, after all, and sadness is just one of the many types of human emotions. We're bound to deal with anxiety, fear, and anger; but once this emotional wheel has turned, we're also meant to experience happiness, satisfaction, and triumph (as Moon Sang-tae tells Ko Mun-yeong, "Over my dead body. I'll win this fight.").

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We're not the only ones who loved IOTNBO! Many celebrities and personalities also have nothing but great words for the series, its stars, and the team behind it.
Check out who they are and what they have to say about this K-Drama in the gallery below:

Local Celebs & Personalities Hooked On IOTNBO
Local Celebs & Personalities Hooked On IOTNBO
By Metro.StyleJanuary 20 2021, 9:32 PM
Alden Richards on why he loves the series
Actor and heartthrob Alden Richards shares, "The material is good, both intriguing and interesting. It's a refreshing take on a drama that tackles mental health awareness, an important issue in our society. The title says it all. It's acceptable and it's okay to not be okay."
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Richard Juan on what he loves about IOTNBO in general
The production value of the show being great is a given already. More than that, actor, host, model, and Kim Soo-hyun lookalike Richard Juan loves that it's a "unique healing drama" that has an amazing cast. He says, "It is not just a typical love story as it tackles so many socially relevant topics, such as mental illness... It doesn’t just focus on people finding love, but it also shows lessons in every aspect of your relationship with people. It’s a story about the challenges between brothers, difficulties in mental health relationships, test of friendships in many different levels, and even dealing with work and your boss... I loved the rollercoaster of emotions I felt throughout the whole show: the comedy, the suspense, the sad scenes, the satisfying scenes—it had everything!"
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There are so many life lessons that one can take away from IOTNBO. Out of all those things, three stood out for Richard. "One of many lessons I learned is that we are all connected with one another; we need each other to live and to be happy. I quote the hospital director Oh Ji-wang, saying, 'People stick together because they’re weak, we lean on each other, that’s what makes us human.' This line struck me on so many levels. I agree but also disagree at the same time! We can definitely lean on each other to help each other grow."
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Richard continues, "Another line that struck me was 'to be able to make the people around you happy, you must find your own happiness first.' There are so many similar lines to this such as 'you need to save yourself first before you save others,' or 'you need to help yourself first before you help others.'" And we think doing so doesn't mean you're selfish, it only means you're strengthening yourself so you can be sturdy enough for your loved ones to lean on.
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Lastly, Richard pointed out a meaningful line that is applicable to our society today in more ways than one. Ko Mun-yeong said, “The one who neglects and turns a blind eye to the abuse is worse than the abuser.” To which, Richard comments, "There are so many things that are happening around the country (and the world), and people turn a blind eye about them because of various reasons such as 'Oh, I’m not in the position to speak up' or 'Just let them deal with it on their own.' These mentalities are exactly why abusers continue to abuse."
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Janice de Belen says IOTNBO is the best K-Drama this 2020
When a die-hard K-Drama fan like seasoned actress Janice de Belen says a series is good, you should take her word for it. For the longest time, Lee Min-ho and Park Shin-hye's "The Heirs" was what she kept re-watching. Now, she found another K-Drama that totally deserves to be her "sleep partner" every night from hereon. "This show made me happy, excited, sad, and kilig on so many levels that I think this is my best 2020 K-Drama," she says.
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Of the lessons one can learn from watching the series, Janice says quoting a line from IOTNBO, "If you want to make the people around you happy, you must find your own happiness first." She adds, "Our happiness should come from within because we need to love ourselves first before we can love another person."
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Moon Gang-tae said that "when life is unbearably hard, the easiest way is to run." But as Dr. Oh Ji-wang advises, "One must face one's trauma to overcome it." Janice cannot agree more with Dr. Oh, saying, "We need to face whatever demons we have in our lives in order to move forward and heal." The Filipina actress appreciated how the show tackled mental health in a manner that's not complicated and can be easily understood by the viewers.
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Janice also commends lead star Kim Soo-hyun's acting. On her Kumu's FYE Channel (Metro KDrama Club) guesting, she says, "When I watched Kim Soo-hyun sa 'It’s Okay to Not be Okay,' sabi ko magaling talaga siya. He deserves every dollar that was paid to him... He knows he’s a good actor. He is very confident. Makikita mo kasi 'pag magaling 'yung artista. He’s very comfortable in his shows, in his acting. Makikita mo 'yun eh. That’s why alam mo, ang hinahanap niya, he doesn’t want to be a star, he wants to be an actor."
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Kim Chiu on experiencing separation anxiety as IOTNBO has ended
During a virtual press con for the launch of Tiger Crackers' new variants, actress, vlogger, and brand endorser Kim Chiu shared that she's been watching a lot of K-Dramas throughout the lockdown. One of them was "It's Okay to Not be Okay," which she binge-watched. She shares, "'It’s Okay to Not be Okay, kakatapos lang, nakakalungkot. Parang ‘pag natatapos ‘yung series, para kang nagkaka-separation anxiety." Other recent K-Dramas she saw include "The King: Eternal Monarch" and "Itaewon Class."
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Lovi Poe on IOTNBO being "refreshing"
As of this writing, actress Lovi Poe hasn't finished the series yet, but overall, she finds this K-Drama "refreshing." She shares with Metro.Style, "The story is dark but executed well with a mix of humor that made it not too heavy to watch. Aside from the performance of each actor, what I loved most about it was the underlying meaning hidden in each fairy tale book mentioned in the series."
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Kelly Misa appreciates the depth of the plot
IOTNBO is definitely not your typical K-Drama. Yes, it's got hints of rom-com but it's mainly a healing drama. On what she loved about the series overall, mommy influencer and host Kelly Misa says, "It goes much deeper as it tackles mental health issues and autism which, to be honest, are still taboo in our society and are hardly talked about. It explains the human psyche and how far the spectrum goes in terms of trauma, dealing with old and current issues and deep-rooted family problems. I love that it is told like a dark fairy tale, which makes the stories we grew up with more relatable and real, even adaptable to our lives today. Also, the fashion of Ko Mun-young is flawless and inspiring. Everything from the storyline, the set design, and the subplots of the supporting actors gave life to this beautiful series."
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Mental health remains a taboo. For Kelly, she tended to shy away from this topic because she acknowledges that she doesn't completely understand what a person with mental illness could be going through, and doesn't want to come across offensive. This is why she loved IOTNBO: "It presented mental health, addiction, and autism in a way that allowed me to see what that person must be going through, and what past traumas they could be dealing with that cause their current behavior."
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Because of how the series enlightened her about the topic of mental health, Kelly says, "I was able to understand and empathize with the characters, which has somehow erased the fear and stigma in my mind. Hopefully, it’s not just me, and more people are now open to this issue to better help our family and friends who may be going through mental illness."
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Patricia Prieto on IOTNBO not being your usual K-Drama
Influencer Patricia Prieto is a K-Drama fan, who can't help but gush over how very well done IOTNBO was. She agrees with the fans of the series when she says that it was impressive how it tried to veer away from the typical plots. She tells Metro.Style, "I love how the show talked about different kinds of mental illnesses. It touched on things as well as topics that your usual K-Drama doesn't talk about, and it was done really well. Of course, the great cinematography and amazing styling were a plus too!"
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The best lesson Patricia has learned from IOTNBO is hinged on the moral of Ko Mun-yeong's "The Boy Who Fed on Nightmares" fairy tale. She was reminded that struggles and pain are inevitable in life. But as Patricia realizes, "Rather than sweeping the pain and hurt under a rug or setting them aside, you need to overcome them. Because how you fight those battles and rise above them help make you a stronger person."
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Ycoy Sitchon points out that IOTNBO is like a fairy tale meets "gothic fantasy a la Tim Burton"
The go-to event planner, organizer, and entrepreneur, who's always churning out wonderful and whimsical concepts for her clients, couldn't help but be inspired by the beauty of the series. She says, "Director Park Shin-woo seamlessly wove an idiosyncratic fairy tale that enticed those who love gothic fantasy a la Tim Burton."
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Ycoy goes on to say, "Apart from the empathically relatable quotes, quirky animation, fantastic soundtrack, an exceptional narrative, and the beautiful cast, it erased the rigid walls of a fairy tale that only binds two lovers, flawlessly extending it to familial love. But it didn't stop there; it was a gift that kept on giving. It forged a deeper connection to its audience as it tackled widely misrepresented issues on mental health, healing, hope, and courage. It refreshingly opened conversations about our inner demons, our damaged souls, and the internal struggles that we are grappling with today."
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Ycoy is amazed by how raw, real, and relatable IOTNBO is, as it presented the process of healing and the ups and downs involved with it. She enthuses, "It presented a perverse reality that the promise of happiness is not just for those who have a sense of normalcy in their hands, but it is also for those who lived through trauma and abuse. It zoomed in on and dissected the fibers of one's character and paved the path for the audience to grasp the entirety of the character's being. It left no room for judgment. As the story unfolded, we gradually understood the reason behind Ko Mun-yeong's apathy and narcissism or Moon Gang-tae's exaggerated sense of altruism and fragility."
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Ria Regino is happy with the series' happy ending
"They got the happy ending they deserve," professional photographer and entrepreneur Ria Regino says. By "they," of course, we mean our "troublemaker trio" (Moon Gang-tae, Moon Sang-tae, and Ko Mun-yeong) who successfully overcame their traumas with each other's help.
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Ria is also impressed by the fairy tales incorporated in the narrative. "I love the way they related them to the story," she says. A creative like herself was also captivated by the illustrations presented in the series. No doubt, there are a lot more things to love about IOTNBO, but Ria says the OST is particularly notable; she's a true K-Drama fan and she says this is the first series that really got her to listen to the soundtrack.
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IOTNBO sure is entertaining, but what's even better about it is that it's also informative. Ria liked that she emerged from watching this series more educated about mental health issues, such as post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) and those like Moon Sang-tae who have an autism spectrum disorder.
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But wait, there's more! Our interviewees further shared what they loved about the finale of It's Okay to Not be Okay.
Richard Juan: "First of all, what do I do now on my Saturday and Sunday nights? I forgot what I used to do eight weekends ago! It's Okay to Not be Okay is all about growth and the finale emphasizes it at the end. From the three leads, to Sang-in, to Jae-soo, to even Director Oh, the fact that you see how beautifully ALL THE CHARACTERS have grown at the end of the show is just brilliant storytelling! The character development is just unbelievable especially with Sang-tae. Unlike many shows where they rarely end with the person with an autism spectrum disorder 'growing up,' this was different. The scene in the ending where he was talking to his mom so proudly about how he’s now a published illustrator made me cry buckets! The ending gave me such a satisfying feeling to see everyone’s growth. I am just so happy with the ending, and I wouldn’t want any other ending to it."
Janice de Belen: "The way they closed the show was nice. It was so packed without sacrificing anything. I know medyo bitin the mother's backstory, but it would have turned into a crime drama which the show isn't, so the closure was enough for me. I was crying, laughing, kinikilig, then crying and laughing again."
Kelly Misa: "I loved that we were able to see each character come into their own. They became better people, and they were able to overcome their past traumas and fears. I came to love each character, with all their flaws, and I love that each one was able to surprise me as they slowly but surely changed for the better."
Patricia Prieto: "They gave the three main characters (as well as the other supporting characters) a great ending. That finale made me cry so much happy tears! It was an emotional rollercoaster of a show and it ended the best way possible. The finale was perfect!"
Ycoy Sitchon: "The eerie, almost macabre storytelling, morphed into an invigorating experience. The feel-good finale sustained the excitement it has brought to the table from the beginning. The heartwarming tonality and message of the trio finally 'finding their faces' and genuine happiness is a satisfying ending. In a nutshell, the highly compelling conclusion illuminated essential truths of the pursuit of joy and beauty of life."
If you haven't seen It's Okay to Not be Okay yet, then all these reasons we've gathered are surely enough to convince you to download or stream the series on Netflix now! We promise, you won't regret watching it!
Lead photos from Metro.Style archive (Alden's photo by Dookie Ducay), @chinitaprincess, @lovipoe, and @richardjuan
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