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15 Ways To Prep Your Man From Morning To Sex

When life takes over it’s easy to forget how we used to go out of our way to make our partners feel special and wanted.  In time for Valentine's Day, we are publishing articles from Working Mom magazine that were produced to help rekindle romance and intimacy in marriage.  As you will see, the methods need not be expensive or complicated.  Sometimes it can be as simple as injecting some fun and excitement into the daily routine.

Work is stressful. There are deadlines to beat; meetings to attend the whole day; discussions with the boss; conflicts with colleagues; and so on. This takes a toll on your man and he comes home tired, grumpy, and bummed out, not in the mood for anything. Unfortunately, men do not have women’s self-nurturing powers when it comes to stress. They act the opposite. They seek escape. They go to bars, clubs, and some undisclosed locations to run away from it all. Sometimes, it’s fine. But when it happens constantly, it makes you all too paranoid. Let me tell you that you have the power to change this. How? By offering your man the most thrilling escape he can ever have: a night of making love.

Men think about sex all the time. For these testosterone-filled beings, sex is the most desired way to escape stress. So, don’t want him going to those dingy speakeasies and women-filled clubs or to come home tired and grumpy? Let him know that he has you to escape to once his stressful day is over. Excite him throughout the day by using that Universe-given power of your sexy mind and body.

Imagine this: You wake up while your husband looks at you adoringly. You smile. He smiles. He gives you a light good morning kiss. You kiss him back. He goes on top of you and starts kissing his way across your jaw, down to your neck, your collarbone.

Then all of a sudden, you hear someone scream, “Mommy! Si Kuya ang guloooo!!!” The kids! You stop. He stops. And you both start dressing, preparing for that stressful day ahead.

What now? Will you let it go or take it as the perfect opportunity to get your man psyched up to want you after the long day ahead? Choose the latter and do these things to make him crazy, stress-free, and hard for you the whole day.


Before Leaving the House

1. Wear Lingerie. He’s probably as frustrated as you are. So to ease his frustration, whip out that sexy lingerie you haven’t touched in months and wear it in front of him. Bend slowly to pick something off the floor and give him a peek of the show that’s about to come.  

2. Put on Perfume. Spray some perfume on your neck and cleavage and get really close to him. Make him smell you as you give him his “have a good day” sensual kiss.

Put on perfume


While at Work

3. Think About Him. While at the office, make him know that you’re thinking about him. Shoot him a text. It doesn't have to be too provocative, a kiss emoticon will work just fine. :*

4. Make Him Wonder and Remember. In the middle of the day, randomly ask him something like, “This morning was bitin. Do you think we can continue tonight?”

5. Photos. Send him a photo of your beautiful face while thinking of him. To be more daring, you may also snap him a photo of you in your sexy outfit. That will surely make him imagine things that he would want to do to you the moment he sees you.

6. Sexting. Let’s go one level up and help him with his midday fantasies by sending him naughty texts hinting at the sexy things you’d like to do to him. Say, “I wanted you this morning and I can’t wait until I feel you tonight, baby.”

7. Dirty Talk. If texting is not your thing, then call! When he’s on his way to pick you up, give him a ring and use your most seductive voice: “Are you coming?”




In the Car

8. Get Playful. Once in the car, up the game and touch him. Get your hands on him by giving him a light shoulder massage. Run your fingers on his neck. Put your hands on his thighs. By the end of it, he'll be dying to put his hands on you.

9. Whisper Sweet NothingsSay something soft into your man's ear, he'll definitely get chills all the way down there.

10. Go For ItTease with your hands. Give him head if you can! Go for it. But be careful not to let him explode. You want him hard and yearning for you, not limp and tired when you get home.

11. Start and Stop. The best way to tease him is by giving him moments that you can’t take your hands off him, and then stopping. As long as you give him that seductive smile, it'll get him more eager to pleasure you.


Back at the House

12. Ignore External Stimuli. Once you reach the house, make it a point to ignore everything that’s happening around. Kids should be busy in their rooms doing their thing. So you should both go straight to your room and do YOUR thing!

13. Lead Him. Drive him crazy by taking charge. Take his hand and lead him to the bedroom. Once you’re in, look at him and slowly lock the door. Sit him on the bed and give him a front seat to the main show.

14. Eye Contact. Eye contact is the most powerful form of foreplay. It’s sexy, seductive, and drives most men wild. Look at him directly in the eye. Keep his gaze and make him wonder what he did right in his life to deserve such a hot, desirable, and seductively gorgeous woman that you are.

15. Strip. At this point, you both should be aching for a piece of each other and there’s nothing else left to do but to slowly take those office clothes off and strip down to those sexy lingerie! After seeing that, it’ll be impossible for him to keep his hands off you! So be prepared to have a fun, intense, and explosive night. #takeitfromthesexpert

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Rica Cruz-Evangelista is a Licensed Psychologist with the Ateneo Bulatao Center for Psychology Services, and a faculty member at the Ateneo de Manila University. She trained in sex therapy and counseling at the University of Guelph.  

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