Maria Katrina Paras

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How to Avoid Holiday Burnout

<p>The holiday season in the Philippines is a universe of its own. By the time the first “ber month” arrives, Jose Mari Chan’s “Christmas in Our Hearts” drifts through grocery aisles like a gentle nudge that <em>noche buena</em> plans are already overdue. </p><p>In Filipino homes, Christmas unfolds as a much-awaited months-long festival stitched with familiar traditions: the hum of<em> parol </em>lights blinking from windows, the chorus of carolers filling the night air, and the joyful clatter of relatives and friends dropping by unannounced with <em>pancit</em> and the latest <em>chika</em> in hand. </p><div><br/></div><div><img src="https://od2-image-api.abs-cbn.com/prod/editorImage/1764146208754Holiday Rush.jpg" style="width:700px" class="fr-fic fr-dib fr-rounded"/></div><div><br/></div><p>Weekends disappear into a blur of family gatherings, <em>barkada</em> dinners, office parties, the yearly debate about who’s hosting what, and, of course, the tradition of squeezing yourself into reunion photos no matter how tired you are. </p><p>While it’s a beautiful kind of chaos, we also can’t hide the truth many of us whisper when the season’s glitter wears thin. There’s the pressure to attend every event, buy gifts for everyone (especially the army of <em>inaanaks</em>), cook as if the entire <em>barangay</em> were coming over, and keep the cheer alive even when you’re running on fumes.</p><div><br/></div><div><img src="https://od2-image-api.abs-cbn.com/prod/editorImage/1764146342174Christmas rush 2.jpg" style="width:700px" class="fr-fic fr-dib fr-rounded"/></div><div><br/></div><p><strong>Holiday burnout</strong> is real, and it stings even more when you’re <strong>trying to be everywhere, please everyone, and recreate the magic we were raised to believe Christmas should be.</strong> So, this year, instead of powering through the rush, try honoring yourself in the process. Here are some creative, very Filipino ways to avoid holiday burnout! </p><div><br/></div><div><strong>Curate and don’t cram your calendar</strong></div><p>One thing about Pinoys is we’re famously game, the kind who can hop from one event to the next like it’s a sport. Well, this is not actually a bad thing as it’s part of the human instinct to show up, join in, and make the moment fun—but too much of anything is never good. Even the social butterfly can hit a wall when invitations come faster than we can catch our breath.</p><div><br/></div><div><img src="https://od2-image-api.abs-cbn.com/prod/editorImage/1764146580596Christmas rush 3.jpg" style="width:700px" class="fr-fic fr-dib fr-rounded"/></div><div><br/></div><p>A season that spans four months leaves plenty of room for boundaries. <strong>Choose gatherings that genuinely matter to you</strong>, say yes to getaways that feel like a warm hug, but don’t force yourself into a marathon of back-to-back events just to refrain from disappointing anyone.</p><p><strong>Protect your calendar like it’s part of your wellness routine</strong>. Mark rest days the same way you mark parties. Treat these pauses as VIP appointments with yourself—perhaps a non-negotiable slice of calm. </p><p>Remember, not every magical moment needs a large audience. Holidays are not boxed into just loud moments; you have all the liberty to carve out quiet corners of your own. You can go to church alone. Grab a hot chocolate and curl up with a book. A quiet Sunday afternoon free from<em> lakads</em> and errands might just be the gift your body has been begging you for. </p><div><br/></div><div><strong>Protect your emotional space</strong></div><p>Let’s be real: the holidays come with their own emotional weather system. One minute you’re excited for the season, the next you feel drained just thinking about the reunions lined up on your calendar. </p><p>Christmas brings joy, certainly! But it also invites pressure to appear extra cheerful, confronts us with unresolved family dynamics, and exposes us to the classic barrage of unsolicited comments: “<em>Kailan ka mag-aasawa</em>?”, “<em>Wala ka pa bang baby?</em>”, or the ever-charming “<em>Tumaba ka</em>!” It’s no wonder emotional fatigue sets in.</p><div><br/></div><div><img src="https://od2-image-api.abs-cbn.com/prod/editorImage/1764146786576Christmas rush 4.jpg" style="width:700px" class="fr-fic fr-dib fr-rounded"/></div><div><br/></div><p>Honor your inner landscape. <strong>Not all reunions are meant for you and that’s okay</strong>. You don’t have to attend gatherings that will leave you feeling smaller, drained, or more stressed. It’s better to excuse yourself from conversations that pry too deeply and create emotional boundaries with relatives who unknowingly cross lines. </p><p>When you’re faced with such a situation, limit interactions that unsettle you. Move to another room or take a breather somewhere else. You are not required to entertain every topic just because it’s the holiday season.</p><p>Practice holiday grounding rituals that will help you recharge, such as journaling, deep breathing, and making a gratitude list. Your peace matters as much as everyone else’s holiday cheer. </p><div><br/></div><div><strong>Gift intentionally</strong></div><p>We love going big with gifts, speaking of Filipino generosity among relatives, colleagues, and every godchild (not to mention the unspoken cultural competition of who gives the most thoughtful present). The holiday rush can turn gift-giving into a high-pressure activity, one that involves sprinting through bazaars and making a mental list. Yet, little do we know that gift-giving loses meaning when it becomes a checklist of obligations.</p><div><br/></div><div><img src="https://od2-image-api.abs-cbn.com/prod/editorImage/1764147109497Christmas rush 5.jpg" style="width:700px" class="fr-fic fr-dib fr-rounded"/></div><div><br/></div><p>If you have all the means, go for it. If it’s your love language, do it and feed your dopamine. But if it stresses you, there must be something wrong. In this case, permit yourself to simplify and shift from quantity to meaning. </p><p>Rather, <strong>try intentional generosity</strong>. A small, meaningful gesture (it could be a personal written note or simply a local handcrafted find) can mean more than a pricey present bought in exhaustion. </p><p>Worried for your <em>inaanaks</em>? It’s completely fine to tell your parents you’re keeping it simple this year. After all, <em>Ninang-Ninong</em> love is not measured in Pesos. Gift-giving should feel like generosity, not a chore you’re forced to do.</p><div><br/></div><div><strong>Don’t become the season’s unofficial events coordinator</strong></div><p>In countless Filipino households, Christmas magically comes together thanks to one person: the “default” holiday hero who somehow ends up doing everything. The mama who cooks as if the whole bloodline were coming over, the t<em>ita</em> who plans and directs the games and program, and the <em>k</em><em>uy</em><u></u>a who becomes the family driver-slash-runner for errands. If this sounds familiar, chances are you’ve been carrying the emotional and logistical weight of the season for years.</p><div><br/></div><div><img src="https://od2-image-api.abs-cbn.com/prod/editorImage/1764147254239Banner Holiday Burnout.jpg" style="width:700px" class="fr-fic fr-dib fr-rounded"/></div><div><br/></div><p>Holiday preparation shouldn’t be a one-person production. Make it a shared experience rather than a solo performance. Loosen the reins and let others step in. Delegate tasks in a way that the family will actually receive well. Meaning, not sounding like a frustrated nagger, but coming in grace and kindness.</p><p>This year,<strong> turn Christmas Eve prep into a team effort</strong>. People often say yes and feel happy to help when they feel valued, not obligated. Next time, ask your cousins to bring potluck dishes, your siblings to take charge of the fun activities, and even children can help fold napkins or arrange utensils.</p><p>When everyone pitches in, the atmosphere shifts and the stress eases. Instead of exhaustion, you get conversation, laughter, and that cozy sense of togetherness that makes the season meaningful. </p><div><br/></div><div><strong>Build a budget that doesn’t break you in January</strong></div><p>Ever found yourself overspending during the holidays? If there were medals for it, a lot of us would be bringing home the gold. Sure, generosity is a sweet part of the season, but ringing in the new year with an empty wallet and a month of “shouldn’t-have-bought-that” thoughts? Not exactly the kind of cheer we’re aiming for.</p><p>Start with a budget that embraces what you can realistically give, and not what you feel pressured to match. Stick to it gently without beating yourself up for choosing practicality over extravagance. </p><div><br/></div><div><img src="https://od2-image-api.abs-cbn.com/prod/editorImage/1764147470780Christmas rush 6.jpg" style="width:700px" class="fr-fic fr-dib fr-rounded"/></div><div><br/></div><p><strong>Use your creativity more than your credit card.</strong> Some ideas are suggesting a gift cap for the barkada, switching to Secret Santa for parties instead of buying for the entire group, or opting for carry-in dinners (one where everyone contributes food). There’s nothing wrong with choosing celebrations where the cost and the effort are all shared.</p><p>The goal here is not to restrict yourself, but rather to ensure you step into January still feeling secure and not stressed. Truly, <strong>financial peace is one of the best gifts </strong>you can give yourself. </p><div><br/></div><div><strong>Stay well while you celebrate</strong></div><p>At the end of the day, Filipino holiday tables will always tempt us with lechon crackling in the corner, <em>puto bumbong</em> glowing under banana leaves, and trays of baked macaroni steaming. No one should ever guilt-trip you for enjoying the flavors that define our season.</p><p>However, if we’re being honest, burnout often sneaks in when our bodies are pushed to their limits: too much sugar, too many late nights, too little rest between one reunion and the next. Take note, celebration is meant to energize you and not leave you feeling sluggish or worn out.</p><p>So, be intentional with tiny, doable habits that will keep your energy steady. Here are some tips you can stay well while you savor the season:</p><div><br/></div><div><img src="https://od2-image-api.abs-cbn.com/prod/editorImage/1764147706541Christmas rush 7.jpg" style="width:700px" class="fr-fic fr-dib fr-rounded"/></div><div><br/></div><p>Hydrate between feasts to keep headaches and fatigue away. Bring a water tumbler to gatherings or drink a full glass before diving into the buffet or after a round of sweetened or fizzy pops. </p><p>Make room for color on your plate. Keep the festive food, but add something fresh like  a spoonful of vegetables next to the hamon or grab a fruit before heading to your next reunion. </p><p>Observe little moments of movement. A short walk after lunch, a quick 10-minute stretch in your room before heading out, or volunteering to help clear the table all count.</p><p>Respect your sleep window. If your eyes are drooping or your body signals it’s time to go home, don’t fight it. Leaving a party early is better than waking up drained for the next day’s festivities.</p><p>Basically, listen to your limits. Your appetite, your rest needs, and your pace matter just as much as tradition.</p><p>Have a happy, peaceful, and healthy holiday season, everyone!</p>

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